Saya puji anda, kenapa x mau terima?

"Haha, akhi org baik, soleh, comel... bla bla bla..."

Wah, bukan main seronok lagi aku memuji orang ni.
 Dan aku kira bila dipuji begitu dia akan gembira, tapi sebaliknya pula yang berlaku.

"Allah.."

nama Yang Maha Suci ini ditaipnya.
lalu ditaipnya pula beberapa baris doa.
memohon bantuan dan keampunan Tuhan.

Eh, terkejut aku.....
Kenapa? Kenapa? Aku ada tersalah cakap ke??

Bila ditanya, dia membalas; "Xdela... saja baca doa.."

hurm.. musykil aku.
Tetiba jer nak baca doa kan.
Tapi sebab akal ini pendek, aku selamba jer sambung sembang...
langsung tak terpikir nak tahu lebih lanjut...=_="

Beberapa hari selepas itu,
kat FB ada orang share pasal Adab Memuji.
Bila aku baca artikel itu... erk.. baru ak notice something..
Sebab rasa cam artikel tu x cukup info, aku try lagi search kt Google....
O my God... memang aku dah buat silap hari tu..huhu

Hendaklah kamu enggan/tidak senang/benci bila orang memberikan pujian kepada kamu.

hadis;

 Diriwayatkan, Rasulullah SAW mendengar seorang lelaki memuji seorang lelaki lain, lantas Baginda SAW bersabda yang maksudnya: " Malang kamu! Sesungguhnya kamu sudah memotong lehernya! Kemudian Baginda SAW menambah: "Sekiranya seseorang daripada kamu tidak dapat mengelak daripada memuji temannya maka hendaklah dia berkata, saya kira begini, jangan sekali-kali dia menyucikan seseorang mengatasi Allah." (Hadis riwayat al-Bukhari dan Muslim)

 Lihatlah perkataan yang ana boldkan itu, bagaimana Rasulullah menyifatkan pujian itu sebagai 'memotong leher' ini menunjukkan betapa merbahayanya lafaz pujian yang terungkap di bibir manusia untuk manusia kerana 'pujian' adalah hak mutlak Allah swt, dan segala kebaikan yang melata di bumi adalah daripada Allah jua, maka kepada Allah jualah kita kembalikan. Jadi berhati-hatilah mengungkapkan kata-kata pujian, insya'Allah ana akan kongsikan bagaimana seharusnya kita melantunkan kata-kata pujian agar pujian kita itu tidak membahayakan orang yang dipuji.

 Lihatlah saudaraku yang sehati seiman dan seperjalanan, betapa dengan pujian boleh mengakibatkan perubahan pada diri seseorang itu. Terang dan nyata bahawa pujian itu bakal membinasakan orang yang dipuji. Allahu akbar! Kawallah lidahmu duhai saudaraku daripada melontarkan pujian, andai anda tidak mahu ramai lagi insan yang terkorban akibat daripada pujian anda.

Tapi memberi pujian dan  menerima pujian masih dibenarkan dalam Islam, cuma ada lah garis panduan serta adab2 yang perlu diikuti, seperti:

Mulakan pujian kita dengan memuji-muji Allah swt. Sebagai contoh; "Subhanallah, Masyaallah, Tabarakallah solehnya dia, semoga Allah mengekalkan kesolehannya, insya'Allah..". Jangan lupa doakan orang tersebut setelah kita memujinya, sesuai dengan adabnya yang telah dijelaskan semoga Allah berkenan mengekalkan kebaikan kepadanya, insya'Allah. Dan semoga dia terselamat daripada kebinasaan.

 Dan bagi yang dipuji pula, bagaimana adab menerima pujian? Hendaklah kembalikan pujian tersebut kepada Allah, dan menyatakan cela diri, lemahnya diri dan semua itu adalah daripada Allah jua. Sebagai contoh, "Allahu akbar, Alhamdulillah, ini semua pemberian Allah swt, tidak ada kekuatan/kelebihan sedikitpun pada diri ini melainkan semuanya milik Allah" lalu berdoa kpd Allah di dalam hati, agar Allah memelihara diri daripada kemurkaanNya.

Fuh.
Tarik nafas dalam-dalam.

 Tak sangka pujian itu sebenarnya sangat bahaya sampai boleh membinasakan amal/akhlak/iman seseorang itu. 
Niat ku bila memuji seseorang, supaya orang akan happy, motivated,dll
tapi sekarang aku jadi sedih pulak.
Jahil nya diri ini, adab memuji pon x tau lagi. huhu.



 #reminder to self
sesungguhnya tarbiyah Allah itu indah~



Quotes ana copy dari page ni, sila baca artikel penuh yer, insya Allah bermanfaat...;)
 Awas dengan Pujian!   

 


p/s: Aduh...rehat jap daripada PPELT..

Friday Firework.

Friday Firework night (well it may look like night here but it's only 6 pm)

Just happened to walk down Commercial Road, heading home after Gil's class and there's event going on.
Christmas is coming, i guess.

To Kill or Not to Kill

Last Friday, (as I'm writing this, it would just be yesterday.) in my Understanding Britain Today class, we discussed on some of the UK laws. One of them is; "Death penalty is prohibited in UK.".

Denise; my lecturer, asked me if we have death penalty in Malaysia, and I said, yes, we do have. She asked again; do you agree with death penalty? and I said, Of course, why not? If we didn't do anything wrong, why should we be scared? She sort of surprised hearing me saying that. Denise is such a lovely lady, I feel bad for sounding a bit.. harsh, I guess? but that day I was too tired to explain further. I was about to add my answer, "Well, I don't think it's wrong, people who kill other people should get a death penalty,, I mean, if the person is proven guilty, and killing with intention, and she/he in a best mental state, not crazy or mentally ill, or anything.. why not?" I guess if I've given this sort of answer, I would sound more compassionate, lol.

But I didn't tell her that. Denise shared her thoughts;
"I think we shouldn't do the death penalty. It's just wrong to take someone's life. I know, everytime there's a murder in UK, especially the ones involving small children, people would have a demonstration; pleading the gov to bring back the death penalty. But as far as I know, it doesn't even come close to that. UK is not going to have a death penalty anymore. I know in some prisons in America, some people waited for 50 years in the death row, just to have their death sentence,, you know, because of certain procedures and all that. Imagine if that person committed the crime in their early teens and spent their whole life in prison just waiting to be hanged. You know, people could change, they would do something awful when their young but they can changed as they get older. I don't believe anyone has the right to take someone's life. I mean, who has the permission to do that?"

Yes, Denise, I understand what you're saying. I like to think for everyone too. Every possible one. I agree that people make mistakes, maybe they don't mean to kill someone, maybe it's not intentionally. Maybe they were wrongly accused, maybe they're mentally sick, maybe they're desperate, maybe it's an act of escaping, saving their life ect, ect. It's not fair to give them a death sentence.
But how about those who kills for pleasure? like serial killer, or youngsters who are bored? torturing other kids although they know it is WRONG? That is so selfish. I think for serious crime, they ought to consider a death penalty, idk.

Imagine if you're in the victim situation. Imagine the person you love the most. Could be your little sister, your little daughter,any innocent child in your family, got murdered by a selfish person, the one who murder someone because s/he feels like to. Imagine the pain. I know it must be awfully awfully hard for anyone who has their close one taken from them in a cruel way. Even if there's someone in your family just died from sickness,cancer or accident ect, you could suffered for years and years in agony, imagine if their life was taken by someone, in a cruel, inhumane way; murder, rape, tortured, ect. It would be a lot worse. And the person whose responsible is just there, sitting in a prison for a certain years. It would not be fair. The family would not think it's fair. Life is just too precious. Lives of our innocent ones are.

I remember Ustaz Z told us about 'hukum hudud' in Islam. In Islam, someone who is proven guilty to have commit a murder, for example killing a child, will be given 3 different sentences, (of course, under given circumstances) and it's up to the family of the victim to choose: 1) the murderer is to be given a death penalty. 2) the murderer is to pay money to the family and the price is really, really high. 3) the family can choose to forgive the murderer if they don't have the heart to kill him or to make him pay. Ustaz said if it's him to choose,  he would pick the second option, >_<

For some people it could have sound cruel to kill someone for killing someone. When would it ends?
But us the Muslim; believe in the life after death, the real, internal life. Punishment in this world is absolutely NOTHING compared to the punishment in that 'another' world. Lebih baik dihukum di dunia daripada di akhirat.

Well, I really don't know how to explain further, I guess this is it. :)